A right mess

[andypaul]

have you ever met your gf in person yet?you never mention though...

Just 2 weeks ago I was with my gf in Hong Kong - but we come home to this

[Ady]

Hi Eljean.

I met my gf finally last June. Because she lives in Davao - and we all know the situation in Mindanao - I was reluctant to go there. Mainly my family concerns, and also because I have little experience in travelling. I tried to get her here for 3-4 weeks - but our visitor visa was refused last September.

We met playing dominoes in Yahoo games in September 2004 - and the relationship developed in April 2005. I speak to her daily in the net, by cam, by phone. Even we chat everyday - we also mail each other everyday. And that has been the case for 3 years (friendship and more). We have arguments, siyempre, but I see her everyday.

Thanks a lot to all for your advice so far. My gf will be seeing a lawyer on Monday - her kuya will attend with her. I have asked her to speak about the birth certificate and also the annulment.

I know it is a complicated situation - and I know some of you may think that my gf is pulling wool over my eyes. However I am 100% sure she has not been pregnant in the last 3 years otherwise I would notice in the camera. And, having met her in person and being a good judge of character, I think she is telling the truth about this.

Thanks again

Ady.

[eljean]

Hello Ady,

sorry bout that i didn't read your previous post thats why i asked if you have already met ...
so she have a 9 years old daughter as well...
I'm from Davao as well its not that really dangerous in there as long as you just live in the city my husband had been in somehow the most dangerous and notorious street in Davao as what it is being known in there where i live...and his
actually, a young lad but his visit was been safe and he enjoy staying it there...
for sure your gf will be able to solve all the mess about the misuse of her name...

[Ady]

Thanks a lot Eljean. Maybe I will go to Davao next year when the annulment process has started. I am a bit ashamed of myself that I ask to meet her in Hong Kong rather than Davao. My gf works in an internet cafe in Buhangin.

I am glad I found this site - sometimes in the last three years I have been desperate for advice from people in the same situation, and I hope I can help the fellow forum users sometime too.

Thanks a lot.

Ady

[eljean]

its alrightwish you all the best hope things will work out right for both of you...dont worry about the settlement application because the forum will always be here for all of your query about it...as soon as you settled that first two things annulment and misuse of her name it will be easier for both of you to be together....good luck