Thanks a lot Eljean. Maybe I will go to Davao next year when the annulment process has started. I am a bit ashamed of myself that I ask to meet her in Hong Kong rather than Davao. My gf works in an internet cafe in Buhangin.
I am glad I found this site - sometimes in the last three years I have been desperate for advice from people in the same situation, and I hope I can help the fellow forum users sometime too.
Thanks a lot.
Ady