Sorry for the delay in answering I've been away.
Your life seems as confusing as mine ;D
You should get as much paperwork as possible, especially concerning the mariage, as entry to the UK can be a pain in the ass. I always recommend supply much more than they ask for, and as much proof of everything as you can get your hands on, as it proves your commitment to the immigration services.
You may find something useful here http://www.marrying-filipinos.fsnet.co.uk/marry.html
