Originally Posted by
denehazel
hi all.i am a 51 year old man,i am getting married to a 20 year old fillipino girl in 5 weeks time.i have been talking to people and they all say that she is just want to get to another country.they say why does she not get a boy of her own age,and that a girl of her age could not love someone of my age.i have ben there twice now.i have all my plane tickets bought.they have got me thinking.they say they have never heard of a marrage between two people with our age difference working.can anyone advise me.also is there any married couples here with a big age difference.i dont know what to do.hope you can help me.
noel
Love conquers all
Love can move mountains
But this applies to true love
I am not in the position to judge you and your relationship with young fiancee'. But the way I feel it, you're are NOT even sure to yourself about pursuing your plan to marry this girl. The fact that you log in to this forum,post a message, and seek help are evidence enough that you have DOUBTS with whatever is now going on to your life. I know it's lonely being alone. But read between these lines... Everybody needs someone to love...and BE LOVED.
