Where do I start? I travelled to the Phillipines and met my lady!!!! Eveything went well met her family and got engaged!!! Then we hit problems..... The new English tests needed to be done so, we had to get these sorted. So I had to fly home alone!!!! It then took months to get results!!! All paperwork was handed in then we got refused? Because we didn't provide any evidence we were going to get married!!!! ??? Thats true because when I phoned to arrange booking I was told both of us needed to apply in person? That told me she had to be in this country? How can she get in ? Now new rules are set to kick in!!! Which means people on benefits cant act as sponsors??? We are both very upset Advice please wise ones!!!!! I'm actually thinking of leaving this country!!!!!