Hi Shale, welcome to the forum.
There are two ways on which you can go to the UK, as a fiancee or as a spouse. Have some time to read these threads so you would have an idea..lots to read but it'll help you with your inquiries..
Fiance(e) Visa or Spouse Visa? Which is best?
How To Apply For A Fiance(e) Visa
How To Apply For A Spouse Visa
Take Note: There are new changes with the settlement route effective 9th July, i.e. financial requirements, number of years before the spouse would be eligible for ILR, etc. The threads above would tell you the same process to go through though, even if it's not yet updated. If you want to have an idea about the new changes, have a read on this..http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....mily-migration.