Scenario: you work away on a ship for 9 mth contracts-your marriage is over last 3 years but you have been supporting them and visit every vacation-you have a long term relationship-3 years- which is mostly long distance.On vacation visiting wife and kids you find out from members of your Filipino family(cousins)that your wife was cheating on you with someone known to the family, right from when you first started working away 12 years ago-you had 2 kids in that time.How would you feel? What about your current long distance partner?