Living away from other people is a very un-Filipino concept, I fancy.
My tally woud be - apartment in Paranaque (not very safe!) gated community, high rise apartment in downtown Makati (certainly the safest!), subdivision in small town*, gated community.
Kay has more than once pointed out a remote house and remarked "That would do for you, but not for me!"
* My ex had some interesting connections. This was very safe.