you are not in the minority at all, we all are here to make each other happy, i would do anything for Emma and i know she would do the same for me, you are lucky that you may have a place to live ie the farm, some of us have not got that, yes i am looking where i would like to be and talking all the time with Emma about differant places, i know she would love to be right next to her dad or sister but also Emma knows that is not for me, so a comprimise is to be had, a place in bohol, panglao, then the family can come and stay with us and also we can go and stay with the family, best of both worlds, i am not rich but with what we may have to take with us should last us well and live better then here, like i have said many times i dont want much, just a view and a garden to keep busy, thats both of us keeping busy