Hi and welcome to the forum.
I think you have already answered your own question to be honest. Some take time, others dont. Dont know why
Congratulations on your recent wedding. Most of us know what it feels like to be away from your new wife. I got married and had to leave my wife too, she is still in Phils with our little son now, so we all know the strains. But at least now with the internet you can talk daily so it helps.
I am sure you will hear soon enough. Fingers crossed
