I need some advice about how I feel

[grahamw48]

Cheekee...take your time mate.

Actually, compared to some you're well placed for bringing a Filipina back here (steady job, decent salary etc).

Don't worry too much about the time scale aspect. It will stop you from rushing into anything (tell me about it ).

The Phils is a fantastic place for taking a holiday, so well worth saving for. You don't have to spend a fortune there...ask me, I'm the expert.

Personally I'd rather hook up with a girl already in the Phils, but that's just me, and as you rightly say, most of those already here are in existing relationships (even if they claim not to be ).

Still, no harm in keeping your options open.

There will always be plenty of help and advice here on the forum from people who've 'been there done that'.

[cheekee]

Cheekee...take your time mate.

Actually, compared to some you're well placed for bringing a Filipina back here (steady job, decent salary etc).

Don't worry too much about the time scale aspect. It will stop you from rushing into anything (tell me about it ).

The Phils is a fantastic place for taking a holiday, so well worth saving for. You don't have to spend a fortune there...ask me, I'm the expert.

Personally I'd rather hook up with a girl already in the Phils, but that's just me, and as you rightly say, most of those already here are in existing relationships (even if they claim not to be ).

Still, no harm in keeping your options open.

There will always be plenty of help and advice here on the forum from people who've 'been there done that'.

Thank you so much.

I will need a lot of advice and Im very grateful for any received.