Blanking

[silver13]

It seems to me that if you have a problem with a westerner, you'll argue about it and then you'll either get over it or else you'll part - separate ways . .

ummm


with filipinas . . .

if u piss them off in the slightest, they'll smile and be nice until you try to be in contact again . . . .

then they'll blank you . . .

this gets on my nerves!

arrrgh


and im not talking about my girlfriend . . . im talking about supposed "FRIENDS" . . . .

they're not westerner eh oh that is one kind of tampo and i agree with mrs. daddy, deal with it

Basically, most filipinos are non confrontational, they just smile at you even they got hurt but in time it will be backed to normal.

Anyway there are so many kinds of filipino tampo, pls do extend your patience & understanding, you'll get over this

[silver13]

they're not westerner eh oh that is one kind of tampo and i agree with mrs. daddy, deal with it

Basically, most filipinos are non confrontational, they just smile at you even they got hurt but in time it will be backed to normal.

Anyway there are so many kinds of filipino tampo, pls do extend your patience & understanding, you'll get over this

My Future Wife Anilyn says I should comment on this one

Yep there is no way around this one, if you cause Tampo, you have probably done something wrong, even if she did something wrong that made you cause the tampo with your western confrontational attitude I have experienced Tampo in the 6 months together in England that Anilyn spent here prior to going home for her Fiancee Visa, We Have it approved today

I even tried Tampo myself and that was doubaly painful But really it give you time to think and then the deal with it part comes in you have to appologise or at least just start talking about what she did and why you felt angry or upset, then you have to think what you did and how you reacted and say that too, Your Tampo stricken woman will sit listening but still blanking you till you finish, then if the one sided discussion seems reasonable to her she will start talking again.

Anyway Tampo is only mild irritation, I am really scared though!!!! Imagine if your woman gets past the TAMPO stage and actually starts SHOUTING!!!! SCARY

Ingat and basically deal with it, it could be worse you could be being hit by a frying pan or something if she was an English woman

JUST