lovely12,

Please do follow the UKBA link and advice I posted for you here:-
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.........please do take a look at this UKBA webpage called Victims of domestic violence

It explains how to apply for permission to settle permanently in the UK (known as 'indefinite leave to remain') if you are a victim of domestic violence and how to notify UKBA if you need to access public funds. It also provides contact details for organisations offering support and advice to victims.........
From the information you have given you have a very strong case to legally secure ILR and also be granted special case to have access to support from public funds. To achieve this you must engage with UKBA.

If you prefer you could arrange a free consulation with an experienced approved immigration advisor.