Anyone does experience Domestic Abuse? Needed Help please

[lovely12]

Im worried now because if I will not drop the case and let it take it in the court, my husband might lost his job, I know he is willing to support the baby despite of what happen to us .he really feel sorry for what he did to me and want us to come back to him,.I dont know what to do now, I dont know if I drop the case or not?

[grahamw48]

You will be able to survive perfectly well here without money from him.

I haven't had a penny from my ex-wife this past four years I've been a single parent looking after our son.

[sars_notd_virus]

Im worried now because if I will not drop the case and let it take it in the court, my husband might lost his job, I know he is willing to support the baby despite of what happen to us .he really feel sorry for what he did to me and want us to come back to him,.I dont know what to do now, I dont know if I drop the case or not?

Domestic violence is one of the pitfall of getting married, men shouldnt treat their wives as property , dont ever back out with the case you filed against your ''foul husband '', the court will think that you are lying once you didnt push through with the case and in some circumstances it can over turn and give the chance for your '' foul husband '' to file a case against you...you said you got a child?? dont go back to the Philippines , your husband can get a court order not to bring the child outside of UK..take one step at a time, what is important is the protection of you and your child , the ILR can wait...push through the case , go to the Citizens Advice Bureau , they will help you to get legal aid , shelter, protection, benefits etc...

be strong and keep us updated on how it goes.