what happened to the friend you stayed with? is he/she not helping you with this? what about the friends you wanted to go out with during a nyt out? do they know about this? how come you were saying you have no one to talk to, you're alone, but have got friends to go out with? are you really concern about your welfare and your baby? or your just concern for your ILR coz its gonna expire soon?

after reading this whole thread, thats my conclusion...how to extend the ILR and not your welfare and ur baby.....sorry....but hope you get out of that abusive situation permanently.