married person are you?
For you men, do you think you've married a domesticated or docile wild cat? Did you feel misled?
For you women, do you think you've married a purring puddy cat or a slob? Did you feel misled?
You see, I am missus Michael Caine (as in nozy neighbour), and sometimes I like a little bit of controversy that will get interesting answers to this simple (simple ??) questions.