Me and my gf also finding the new rules hard but well i not going try and get her here in the uk. I now decided going study be teacher and teach english in other countries so me and my gf can betogether. I hope it all works out will take 4 years to 5 yrs before we can actually betogether I just know there no future in uk for us maybe your fiancee can work in other country if he got good job heard newzealand nice place to work if u have the right qualifications.