As The Boss posted in the forum, you should do your homework and searching, you can find all the info you will need. I am skeptical about telling them your love for your wife would be enough to convince them. (And YES they will hunt you down and put you both in jail) but yes they will not make your life easier if you break any immigration law
. They are already facing a very difficult task to deal with immigration and as what I see they will not make it any easier for everyone.