Ah, it seems you booked into a 'short-time' hotel. Didn't happen to hear lots of did you ?

Mate, be very very careful.

I sense an accident waiting to happen with this one .

I would urge you to learn as much as you can about the Filipino culture and their way of 'doing things'...including social etiquette and the importance of 'family'. This is no minor matter when considering marrying a Filipina.

Whatever your lady may tell you about the relationship she has with her family (and their influence on her, whether here or there), it's going to be one that you are going to have great difficulty separating her from, and indeed why would anyone reasonably expect a lady to do that ?