There seams to be a lot of disagreements on this forum in the last few days, which as an open forum can be taken in whichever way the person reading the comments interprets them.
Maybe time to throw another spanner into the works as it were, and divulge the one thing that I live by above all else:-

You are born with 2 ears and 1 mouth.......... use them accordingly

Have a think about what you are reading, where you are reading it, and what reaction you expect when people read your comments.