Thanks for the encouragement.. But right now it seems hopeless for us ..I returned to the UK with our baby 11 months ago.. I can’t work as our baby was only 6 months at the time now she’s 18 month now.. I was separated for years ever without getting a divorce I never thought I’d marry again the divorce has taken nearly a year to complete.. I have the divorce now and am going back to marry her. We've been in contant touch daily even throughout our forced separation. Its killed me and my GF she’s missed a year from our daughter life..we can’t bare being apart anymore. how can we apart again for many month again ...