Rhose, you are not naive, maybe innocent. But like Lhailhani said, you have been brought up having respect for yourself, your body and values. Now is the time to let your desires free with your husband. Whatever you do behind your bedroom door (or wherever you like to do it....wink wink..say no more!) is nobody else's business and you will find the things you enjoy more than others. Your sexual partnership with your husband will make your relationship stronger as you learn everything about how you both 'tick'
Enjoy experimenting, its not rude or dirty... it's just practice leading up to the ultimate level of making love, where you know eachother well enough to produce a little Rhose.

Agree with you Steve.....