Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
I am giving an honest and thought-out opinion...to which I am entitled.

It does make a relationship much more challenging where step-children are involved, and especially when bringing them to the UK.

Anyone considering the prospect needs to seriously consider the implications of this FOR THE SAKE OF those children as well as their own future.

People don't always think these things through sufficiently before 'taking the plunge' IMO.

As I'm sure you know, I brought up two Filipino stepchildren from 1 and 3 years of age, and brought them here to the UK, so I do have relevant experience.
My well thought out challenge will officially start from next week with the arrival of my stepson, It is true say there has been a lot of extra work, time and £££ in order to get them here but like you....