Worried about my filipina gf

[gWaPito]

Thanks guys i really do appreciate your comments and i have been going through them. Its hard sometimes to see the wood for the trees and having other participate is really helpful. Thank you for that. ...

I do have one question for you.

I have been with my filipina gf for 2 years and she has a 8 yr old boy and i have been supporting her financially and covering her needs and she wants to buy a home and i do too, but is it right to expect that her son live in it with her when i am not there and her family live down the road in the same subdivision ? Her family dont talk to me and half of them live in Japan with their japanese husbands as described before.

I want the relationship with her, but not have to build 2 relationships. Is it right to say that i want her in the home and not her child? Her child is undisciplined and noisy and messy . Is it right to say that if i m the one buying the home.?

I need your answers on this one please.

I'll be honest with you..up until the above post you had my sympathy.

Now im thinking you probably deserve one another...what sort of man wants to separate a mother from her child ....they come as a package buddy...not to be mixed up with baggage

Like its been said before here..get out of the relationship before you do any more damage...and im thinking about the 8yo boy...if you adults wanna screw your lives up, all well and good......you dont mess with children.

[lordna]

We now have 3 pages of this rubbish!. For christ sake just listen to what everyone has told you and forget the girl.

Not only that forget trying to date any nice filipinas....just go and find an English girl who will probably cheat on you anyway...its what you deserve!

Think i would rather hear that than you spoil some nice filipinas life...
My god..who would even consider trying to seperate a mother from her child . You must be a complete ***hole!

[sars_notd_virus]

I do have one question for you.

I have been with my filipina gf for 2 years and she has a 8 yr old boy and i have been supporting her financially and covering her needs and she wants to buy a home and i do too, but is it right to expect that her son live in it with her when i am not there and her family live down the road in the same subdivision ? Her family dont talk to me and half of them live in Japan with their japanese husbands as described before.

I want the relationship with her, but not have to build 2 relationships. Is it right to say that i want her in the home and not her child? Her child is undisciplined and noisy and messy . Is it right to say that if i m the one buying the home.?

I need your answers on this one please.

An easy solution is to let your gf go to Japan and marry a rich japanese , ...then she can buy a home for herself ,her son and you.

Normal people like us here in the forum will not understand you and your gf ,...as you said you wanted a relationship with her ....does that include ''LOVE'' I dont think you both have it??....you are both spirit suckers !!

[eliza]

Thanks guys i really do appreciate your comments and i have been going through them. Its hard sometimes to see the wood for the trees and having other participate is really helpful. Thank you for that. ...

I do have one question for you.

I have been with my filipina gf for 2 years and she has a 8 yr old boy and i have been supporting her financially and covering her needs and she wants to buy a home and i do too, but is it right to expect that her son live in it with her when i am not there and her family live down the road in the same subdivision ? Her family dont talk to me and half of them live in Japan with their japanese husbands as described before.

I want the relationship with her, but not have to build 2 relationships. Is it right to say that i want her in the home and not her child? Her child is undisciplined and noisy and messy . Is it right to say that if i m the one buying the home.?

I need your answers on this one please.

marcus.. Don't force your self just wake up..
Yes i know you love her.
But did she love you
maybe yes to very hard to proub it

ok. I want toadvice to everyone if you fall inlove to in one person don't give all live some for.your self....

Thank you...

[CBM]

Marcus, I must say that I agree with what everyone else has said.

There are many really nice girls and really nice families; it is time to walk quickly away from this one and don't look back.

You are well out of line about the child, as others have already said.

[kim c]

What ? you wanted to separate an year old child to her mother? Do you have a heart ? Do you really love your gf? Now I’m confuse, after reading your post I don’t think I have to sympathize on you . Im sorry but in my opinion its better if you get out of the relationship.

[grahamw48]

Like its been said before here..get out of the relationship before you do any more damage...and im thinking about the 8yo boy...if you adults wanna screw your lives up, all well and good......you dont mess with children.

Totally agree.

How selfish can you get ?

[Tinker]

Hi Marcus,
If its true that her sister use her identity fo rthe passport, etc.. well sad to say, there isn't no other way she can have her own passport. If you really love each other,the only way is to be with her in the Phils, but then THINK and DECIDE its all up to you.

[imagine]

with all this illegal stuff she doing, i would stay well clear, for fear of wrongly getting involved,