Yes, of course you'd need a trip or two out there first to get the lie of the land.
Me...same situation ? There in a flash.
Don't commit fully to the lady though before being sure (as you can ever be) of the strength of the relationship.
Also do a lot of research on the net....loads of sites out there about expat life and culture in the Phils.
You really need to understand how Filipinas and their FAMILIES tick.
