i have chatted with lyndee 6 months online and phone twice weekly, chatted with about 10 before her, she is more down to earth and less good looking, more the true filipina than some of the really hot looking girls of mixed race , i thought about living there but everyone there tells me its hot !! and not english hot, but also as i have not married before we want children and would like english school , i do not get living allowance but get invalidity of 120 pounds weekly as well as similar amount through works pension ,i did not mention that in first letter because was not sure if that counted against me when applying for her to come here after marriage there , any more advice always welcome ,,,,thank you Norman