Well I found my babe on a dating site... But I believe I was extremely lucky... Yes there were many scammers all that needed my money.... Lots of single women with youngsters to I wanted someone that I could have fun with before children. I must admit I spoke to well over a hundred ladies... Then I found my Phillipino Beauty.... She was not like the rest, strong morals and very honest. I just knew in my heart she was the one...... So yes I believe that you can find someone on these sites but please be careful... There are some horrible people out there too! I found my woman on Oasis which was free..... I hope you find the perfect person. But don't rush and set your standards high..... Good Luck...