Criticism age gap

[grahamw48]

Me growing old disgracefully yesterday.

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[marksroomspain]

Thanks guys for that my wife also said the same that age is just a number I am happy to announce that we are expecting our first child Jamie is 20 weeks pregnant and we have just found out we are going to have a baby daughter to yes to all those jealous people out there get a life...

[grahamw48]

Many congratulations to you both.

[tiger31]

For me, the litmus test isn't so much the age gap (Though having said that, sorry but a huge age gap does not seem "right" to me - however a big difference is that I will always keep my nose out, what works for me doesn't work for all, and it's that couples business not mine)

The litmus test, is more crucially "is there some sort of politics or control thing going on"?
Is it about love...........or is it her putting up with some bad tempered ugly old git because she wants his money?
Is it him going to Thailand and finding a "bargirl" ( ) to marry because he is a complete lowlife, too fond of giving backhanders if his Stella isn't chilled ok, who no self respecting UK girl would give the time of day to.

Nothing to do with love, nothing to do with respect and everything to do with just "using" the partner to get something they otherwise wouldn't ever manage........and this works both ways I guess.

I don't want to rain on anyone's parade, it's simply none of my business. There is though very good reason the old man and young tart gag was used repeatedly in Benny Hill shows

very well put sir

[Steve.r]

Thanks guys for that my wife also said the same that age is just a number I am happy to announce that we are expecting our first child Jamie is 20 weeks pregnant and we have just found out we are going to have a baby daughter to yes to all those jealous people out there get a life...

Congratulations that is brilliant news. I know the feeling very well.

[febmary]

You cannot pleased everybody...Annoy them more...

[Michael Parnham]

Thanks! grahamw48

[anonymous]

There is a 43 year age gap between my wife and I and are very happy and compatable, but all my family members and all my friends apart from one have disowned me and wont have anything at all to do with me. I've just had to accept it and move forward. I did let them all know that I am going to stick around for another thirty years just to annoy them!

I hope the very right time will come when your family & relatives would have the courage to accept the decision you've made. Knowing the fact that it is what's making you happy, then they should be happy for the both of you too. Though i know, not all would be able to understand this kind of relationship, it would be better if we just don't mind those people who criticize. Despite let's just accept & respect what's their views and opinions with regards to this kind of matter as we would want those who criticize to accept and also respect our decision being involved on this matter.

[Michael Parnham]

I agree anfulminar, lets see what happens.

[jlags90]

I am 22 and my husband is forty-seven...
Some say we have gap like Earth and Heaven..
Hahaha!

We don't really find the huge age difference as an issue. It's the gap that holds us together

And surprisingly, there was no PreNuptial Agreement...

[grahamw48]

From what I've heard, Prenups have no value in law anyway.

[imagine]

thats right Prenups count for nothing

[lastlid]

It's the gap that holds us together ....

Ooh Err Mrs ....

[jlags90]

Ooh Err Mrs ....

Mrs. Bamford lastlid.... lol
there are only two Mrs. Bamfords in the family.. so either the young, or the old... lol

[karenkeith]

21 years of age gap with me and my boyfriend..nothing wrong with that as long as you're both happy..

[Rhose]

Thanks guys for that my wife also said the same that age is just a number I am happy to announce that we are expecting our first child Jamie is 20 weeks pregnant and we have just found out we are going to have a baby daughter to yes to all those jealous people out there get a life...

Congratulations!!! well one of the thing that makes everybody young.. a good news and always stay happy... what a wonderful blessing..

[stevie c]

There is 16 yrs difference between me & my wife & we are absolutely made for each other in everyday age gap doesn't even enter our heads so sod the rest they either like it it or lump it

[Michael Parnham]

Our GP has named us Sunrise & Sunset.

[lastlid]

Our GP has named us Sunrise & Sunset.

[Dedworth]

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage...f-his-age.html

Nick Knowles 50 new wife 25

[filbrit]

To be accepted/get positive comments from others are just a bonus. the only important thing is you and your partner genuinely love each other no matter what. cheers to us all!

[CBM]

There is a 43 year age gap between my wife and I and are very happy and compatable, but all my family members and all my friends apart from one have disowned me and wont have anything at all to do with me. I've just had to accept it and move forward. I did let them all know that I am going to stick around for another thirty years just to annoy them!

Bravo!

Good for the pair of you and be sure that you do so!

[karenkeith]

my age was 24 and my fiancee was 45..we were happy and in love..to keep the relationship strong ignore those people who criticize your relationship.It's a waste of time.

[blessed_ekim0826]

In my situation, I am 20 and my partner is 61(41 yrs. gap) but my partner is worried coz people stare at us every time we going out. I keep telling him to ignore but he cant. Anyway, we both love each other and happy.

[Michael Parnham]

Don't worry, If you are living in Phil it's because you are with a foreigner, nothing to do with age gap. If in UK it's because they are jealous!