i agree with one of our fellow forum friend here that it totally depends on the decision of the couple or the situation
in our case, my husband want to have a baby soon (who doesn't?) BUT I AM NOT ready yet because first we are not financially stable for now and he still got two responsibilities from his previous marriage ( his ex-wife is a pain sometimes, well most of the time
keeps on demanding things from him
) this situation just stress me out .good thing he understands. i just need to cope really
