Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
just a thought here,you are in england or still in the phils, you are married, whats the most important thing in your life, to have a child or to be happy, yes you can have both, but what happens if you dont want both, would you feel pressured to have a child or feel safer having a child, would just being married and not planning to have any children be considered a good marrige,everyone is differant in the own views, just wondering what do others think
Surely its either or, or even neither or both, or maybe even all ! ! But if you love someone enough to marry them then you have to remember that there are two opinions to consider and you have to remember that the second opinion is more important than your own....if you really love them that is