... yes ... I can relate to what you're saying ... in so far as my daughter-in-law - who, at 31, is a year younger than you are now - adores kids, but is content with being an aunt to her several nephews & nieces since, like
you, she's extremely apprehensive about the birthing process. And my son has already made it plain
he's happy enough to respect her reservations.

...
shame really ... because they'd make
ideal parents.
So no more grandchildren for me!
