Originally Posted by min202
About ending the relationship, you will have two kids now. Think one million times... There may be no good excuse on his attitudes you have mentioned but it could only be caused by the visa refusal. What I am trying to say is, try to recall his attitude when you were together. Does he always react very badly in negative situations? Weigh the good and the bad. If you think, he is someone you can not deal with for the rest of your life, then you should know the answer. You said he is a good person. Your statements were "I feel like". Have you thought of giving a consideration on how you interpret what he says? I would like to clarify that I'm not on his side. Just want to resolve the issue than making you feel worst. Let's admit the fact that girls can be more emotional and we have a tendency to put meaning on things far beyond we should. I suggest you discuss this with him (specially about you having a child before him). But make sure he is in a good mood and try to find a good statement to begin the conversation (make sure the approach is you want to resolve the issue rather than just trying to make an argument).
There goes my opinion. I hope you feel better soon and be able to resolve your problems so you can both focus on what to do on the visa refusal. God bless you and the precious one in your tummy.
