Heartbroken

[softmallowgum]

i doubt he had to go to the jobcentre everyday - unless he was on some sort of gov scheme, more likely he had to go once every 2wks to 'sign on' stating he was looking for work, he wouldn't have been there 30mins most of the time.

Really? Wow no idea how that works. He just said the centre has the habit of calling him at the last minute to do stuff for them or else they will stop his money. The day I arrived, he was supposed to pick me up at the station, but the centre wanted him to attend an employ-ability skills seminar.

The more stuff I learn, the more I can see how foolish/gullible I am, oh noes :P

[Rhose]

so sad to know your story... but I admire you for being so brave, thinking you're alone in other country. Don't worry girl, you will find someone whom you deserve and think positive that your beautiful enough... it's inside look what you have and man can probably proud of you.. Go girl!!! I can see you in future posting how really lucky and bless you are because of that courage you have in yourself.