Hi softmallowgum, writing that took courage,.. but I'm pleased you took the time to do it. The fact you travelled all that way to meet this guy shows what a great person you are. I'll be honest with you! You deserve someone better than the man who let you down.... I think you've had a lucky escape. Trust me is some one wants to meet you. They will make the time... This person is a waste of space!!!! Don't waste your time losing sleep over him... Be honest and sincere and you will find a person that will appreciate the rare gem you are! Good luck and best wishes.... Let us all know how you get on!