im so sorry reading your story, what an hole he is,
i can appreciate the costs involved for you is Enormous in comparison to what it seems to us, though for many of us its still a lot,
how brave you are and what a treasure you are for the real mr right thats yet to come along.
i wish my lady was able to come to see me,i know i'd be over the moon,
next time you let mr right come to you and show you he's genuine