Andy isn't taking out his predicament on you. He just thinks, like I do, that you don't seem to care about other folk bringing their wifes / fiancees into the UK as long as you are able to. And what's more, is that you fail to see that point.
It seems to be a case of "Gwapito has succeeded so now we bring up the drawbridge....."
Rubbish....you know very well my reasoning...I do care about others bringing in there partners.
Yes, my wife is here...I'll tell you now, her visa wasn't gifted...I work bloody hard ...thats what ive done so far all my life.
You know what else...I had to move place of work as well...cld of quite easily festered at my local employment and put up with the pants wages...I didn't, I moved on.
These are the things people do if they want certain things in life.
Look at another member on here..he's actually gone to China for employment because of this new minimum wage ruling..I take my hat off to him.
Like I said I dont care about your work history. These rules were not in place when you bought your wife here. You trying to tell me you have worked harder than me? You know nothing. Dont worry I will get my wife here and I dont need your support.
the most important person in my life is my Emma, my partner, my wife and best friend, after her the kids comes along grandkids and then mum and dad, brothers and sisters and freinds, the list goes on, if i could help everyone then i would, but sometimes the best thing to help someone is just to listern to there problems, thats what we all want sometimes and if any help along the way , well thats just nice, i dont agree with lots on here and i try to keep out but sometimes you cant help yourself, i am no great mind about politics, who has what and why cant it be me, everyone on this site has given some great advice and some have not, take it all at face value, and if you dont agree just say it the once, there is no need to go on because you only get yourself upset,, thats all i can say because i have a extra post now![]()
Thats what we come on here for steve advice and a bit of support. I dont know much about immigration I am not a expert but if I can help I will. I just dont like people who try to rub your nose in it.
i dont think he means that, i love telling everyone my plans about moving to the phils, some may say i am bragging some may say what a fool, but i am happy, all that has happened to me and all i have now, it can happen to anyone, yes i say i am lucky and i am compared to yourself not having your wife here, but it takes time, and people who dont know what we have to go through have no idea, its only people on here whos done it can understand, Andy i feel for you and the problems that face you and i understand too, like i have said nobody knows everything but all of us together may know a lot more, thats what this forum is about
my boss who owns quite a few companys, very rich and so called worldly, says to me surely you and your friends dont have problems bringing your wife here because you are british steve, if only, and when i explain we are going through another visa at a cost, hes amazed, still dont get the pay rise thoughBut that shouldn't be part of the criteria for a spouse /fiancee visa either.
my wife was gifted her visa most of our partners /wives and girlfriends have to have some sort of visa to come here and its hard earned cash that pays for it, so what do you call that, a gift, or something that just gets sorted out so you can be together no matter who you are ,i call my wife a gift , no money in the world could replace my Emma,so was my wife gifted her visa, well yes, but i dont see it that way, we both work hard to pay for everything in what we have now, no wonder Graham split[/QUOTE] i hope Graham has not split from the forum, hope its just this thread, does anyone know anymore info on this
Im no chameleonunlike an individual on here...won't mention no names but it starts with Last and ends in lid
The amount of time you spend on here lastlid looks like you cld be joining the single set soon...I know my wife would'nt accept it..I mean..you spend all that time and effort getting her here then spend seemingly every waking hour on here...me thinks you got an addiction.Get help before its too late
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Enough now children, what stated as a reasonable debate, turned into a difference of opinion has now turned into school yard name calling and personnel attacks.
Grow up, agree to disagree and move on, please.![]()
its not my last post, i want to get to 6000, so keep it going boys![]()
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