Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
Good post (reputation sent) Marco...I agree, the goverment are picking on the easy targets much like speed camaras...the easy route as always....I also agree that most British would not make putting the boot into spouses of British citizens ideal way of lowering immigration figures.

The rest of your post...we will have to agree to disagree

You said you didn't go into your relationship thinking whether you could afford it or not.

..I find that hard to believe...its like saying most folks thinking about having babies dont think about the financial side....we all gotta a right to have babies just has we all have a right to marry whom we chose without financial thought?.



....I dont think so...we all have a responsibility for our actions...morally at least.
I'll agree with you about Babies my friend. You're bound to look at the financial side particularly in determining how many you're going to have. It's the right thing to do.
What your forgetting is that a lot of us here have been married before. I'm sure most if not all of us never had to put up with this much Government interference in our first marriage so never anticipated or thought about it this time around. I was already married when I joined this forum and it was only then I became aware of what people were going through to bring their wives here.
You also talk about moral obligations. Well I think this government has a moral obligation to treat it's own citizens exactly the same if not better than people from the EU. Surely you'll agree that it can never be right that if you had a Polish neighbour in exactly the same situation as you he would be treated better than you in our country.