I'll agree with you about Babies my friend. You're bound to look at the financial side particularly in determining how many you're going to have. It's the right thing to do.
What your forgetting is that alot of us here have been married before. I'm sure most if not all of us never had to put up with this much Government interference in our first marriage so never anticipated or thought about it this time around. I was already married when I joined this forum and it was only then I became aware of what people were going through to bring their wives here.
You also talk about moral obligations. Well I think this

government has a moral obligation to treat it's own citizens exactly the same if not better than people from the EU. Surely you'll agree that it can never be right that if you had a Polish neighbour in exactly the same situation as you he would be treated better than you in our country.