Listen gwapito I dont care about how much money you have got or your lifestyle. All I know is you depending where you live you dont need £18600 to live as a family. You dont need sky tv and iphones and all the rest of the luxuries to be happy. Like I have said before the cost of living is much less in the midlands and up north. As Arthur has quite rightly pointed out. Money alone does not buy you happiness. All I and others want on here is the same chance as you have been given and that is to bring our wives here and live happily. Got it?