some of you may have followed my earlier posts about myself and the Filipino I was in a relationship-the difficulties of it being even more long-distance since I lost my job on the ship we both worked on-him going into shock whenhe found out the wife he was separated from had been cheating right from when he started working on the ship 12 years ago(we have been together for 3 years) and my last post a few days ago asking about problems phoning The PH-well I now know why I was having problems with that-it's because neither him or his phone are in The PH-they are both in Australia where he is starting a new life with his new girl-this I found out from his sister not him.to say I'm in shock is a bit of an understatement