i was once in that same situation, a few years ago, that person was my life, someone who i had planned to be with for the rest of my life, then something happened, my world came crushing down, she did not love me anymore, yes i tried to do everything in my power to change her mind, i did this and that, jumped through hoops, you name it i did, and for what, just to delay what should have happened in the first place, how i cried, how i could have easy ended it all, it took a long time to get over it, work and friends do help, but the best thing to come out of all this, is she left me, so i have no thoughts at all off did i do the right thing if it was me who left her, she did me one big favour, my life is fantastic real is, i thank my ex everytime i see how happy my Em is and me too, it all takes time ,