the trouble is , em is such a nice person, hates to confront anything, even when we had to call the inland revenue and ems had to talk , i tried to explain to the chap that ems is unsure but it was ems tax and it was her who had to speak, did not take long for him to ask ems to put me on the phone to explain, aint it funny how quick we understand our partners differant sayings of english but nobody else seems to understand