Hi Robert
You seem a bit confused at the moment as to what you are actually going to do to bring your wife. I think you need to sit down and plan it properly and then stick to it.
Your talking about going to Ireland or maybe Switzerland and surely you need to prove that you have settled in either these places and have an address and some income to support your wife in order to exercise your treaty rights.
I like you have dual nationality as I was contemplating submitting an EEA request from the UK, but the change in the law prevented this.
I wish you well whichever route you choose.