Thank you so much for your advice. Appreciate it much. :-)

We are deciding not to hire a barrister or solicitor to help us. Especially getting advice here. :-)

I am not currently employed and I have a nanny, a filipina as well (with domestic worker visa). So, i think that's good. It's really emotional support that I need from my mother and my kids love to be around my mother and playing with her and sharing things with her. My husband and I want to take advantage of the opportunity that I'm the only one married in my family and our kids need to experience more of my mom too. Not to mention that, I miss my mom so badly. :-) Anyway, we are really excited to get her here. :-)

Thanks again for all your advice. :-)