Lurking, reading posts...Cogitating...
Re-decorating the flat, laying new carpets, painting doors and frames, drinking bucketfuls of espresso to keep awake so i can chat with "her indoors" at silly o'clock in the morning...
Hoping that by the time she gets here in 2021 the place might look half decent.
And every now and then I unleash my two pence worth of advice on the forum...