Never lose hope Alan. It's just a phase, you'll get through it and will one day look back and laugh.
Never lose hope Alan. It's just a phase, you'll get through it and will one day look back and laugh.
When my partner left me in the UK - she took me to the cleaners - as I have already said. What did I need at that time? Friends!! People who would be willing to support me - as I was, I thought, totally innocent!!!
Out of all my friends - THREE stuck by me!! Of course, they could not be with me all of the time - they had their own lives to live.
My best friends came to be my students at work! They were either delightful children, receptive teenagers or hungry adults - hungry for knowledge.
In 1999 I was awarded ' Outstanding Teacher ' status by OFSTED - I thought - WOW - I must be doing something right!!!
I remember the night vividly! My girlfriend's father arrived at the front door - Err - Alan - I have some bad news for you - Susan is dead!! She was killed in a motorbike accident last night!!!
Of course, I had known death before then - both my grandads had died at 'young' ages - but this was my girlfriend!!!! She was 21!!!!
You are supposed to be an adult in the UK when you are 18 - but you are NEVER an adult until you have received devastating news - or you have got married - or you have a mortgage - or you have kids!!! My opinion only.
I cried for days - Susan was the first girl who made me feel like jelly - who gave me a strange feeling in my loins (Ronnie Barker - Porridge!)
I turned to my passion - music!! I wrote more and more songs - sent them all to record companies - got the inevitable rejections - perservered - got rejected again - THEN - GOT ACCEPTED!!!!!
Out of bad - always comes good - at least it has for me. So, I must remain strong - I want to take Hanna home with me - at the moment I have NO CHANCE - but maybe one day - maybe one day - maybe one day.
I have, I feel, more friends now than I have ever had in my life - and most of you don't even know me.
I KNOW that I have the most beautiful girl in the world.
Al.
The workload at my new school - CPILS - is totally ridiculous! Five classes of 80 minutes each, separated by a 10 minute break! When one is teaching, one is supposed to be 100% receptive to one's class - the students deserve no less.
However, when you are totally sh****d out, you cannot give said 100%.
I am not willing to teach in a situation where I cannot devote myself totally to my students.
I have therefore made a decision!
I shall go back to the UK this October to see my parents, my children and, hopefully, some of you.
I shall leave Hanna here!!! That is the worst thing!!!!
I need to get some decent money in my bank account. BUT, I am not a spring chicken anymore!!! Will I find a teaching job back home?
Life is never easy - and for me it is getting harder!!
I shall survive - I have to!!
Any advice gratefully received.
Al.
Pressed rat and warthog closed down their shop!
Absit invidia
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Al, I'm sure you have made the right decision, and with your experience you will have no problem getting a teaching job.
when you are settled back here and have a healthy account and home,
apply for Hanners spouse visa.
Jim.
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