and i think it would be easy to apply for tourist first, less papers to submit and for her to show how is life there in ur place..the ppol, the weather, culture..then she'll have idea so next time around..all she has to do is make the necessary adjustment..not only to the place n ppol there, culture but especially adjustment for her to be away from her family and be beside you.........in one roof............hope its not the hardest part for her...he he just kidding