I had no reason to think of her as a scammer ever we knew each other for 2 and a half years now from first chat but yes it has ended up that way, so hard to accept and get her out of my mind. In many conversations she shared important and some personal things. conversations each day were detailed and every day we talked, anything and everything and continued to both ask for reassurance. I could call her anytime and did. I am not a stupid guy at all but seems I have been now. I still see her as a good person even with this, she often made wise comments ahead of her age. I respect Filipino of course and will continue too but still you must check and recheck in a long distance relationship if your even a smallest doubt raise it, and I did, but should have been more thorough. I wish could talk to her but I cant of what did happen and why. She missed personal and that guy could give her that and probably she found herself in a tough situation between him and someone supportive. Just wishes she would have been honest and she would have known I will understand but perhaps also she didnt want to face the shame, who knows but I should put all these questions away now. I am feeling if I meet a filipina here its better so you can get the face to face situation so you can be more sure.