Bhem_bhem, why do you want to put weight, if thats your profile picture you look beautiful! When I first went to the Philippines in 1989, all or most of the the ladies were beautiful and slim and thats what the majority of men like, but recent years I have noticed that there are many fat girls, and fat is not pretty, is it because of junk food outlets or have todays women got no pride anymore? Please dont be offended it's not my purpose to offend anyone, I just can't understand why the change.