It is just an insecirity thing, think most men and women go through it at some stage in life, especially at the start of the relationship, maybe the first few years When Me and Anilyn started talking we only talked through e-mail and they was always long ones, we kept recordsof all e-mails for the purpose of future Fiancee Visa that we now have Anilyn's e-mails got shorter and shorter as in reality she was letting things slip at home, her family had to try to cover for her abscence away from the home while she was in the Internet Cafe of a night time. I felt a little insecure at that time but did not say much, apart from once I think when I wrote my concerns to her in an e-mail not destined for the Embassy So I used to just run to the pub after writing my e-mail and I just guessed that that was the reason for shorter e-mails It did irritate me a little going from long e-mails to shorter ones each day as I was worried that the Fiancee Visa may be rejected, because of less communication, We started to talk a lot on the phone, then we got a Visitor Visa first and then the Fiancee Visa and we can now marry

Trust Me I Am Not A Doctor But Your Hubby is just insecure, maybe it will never go away, just hope he does not suffer from jealousy too that would be worse than the problem you have!!!

Good luck and as Tom and Mark say as well as others in here try talking it through, honesty and openness is a great thing

Ingat Paul